I have a "friend" more of an aquaintance really, with an issue hooking up with women, he isn't shy,

though perhaps more modesty would be appropriate looking as he does, he isn't blessed with great humour, far from it, his jokes are ALWAYS followed by a lenghty silence and stifled yawns and he has no charm, imagine if a skunk could talk out of its backside for a barometer - yet, he always hangs around "looking for the scraps" when in a club or late night situation, it is a real; curse on us "regular " chaps - shall I tell him to wise up, or cut him some slack???